Children saw their parents how to have sex after the psychological

1, mankind's privacy

Animal courtship, All those who have attained the male clamors repeatedly; animals mating, is also broad daylight, to act calmly. Mankind from ancient times to date, Nanhuannvai, always hidden places, secret. Primitive people in the depths of the jungle, mountains and rocks back holes to complete sexual intercourse with modern people in the home Doushi line Precipitable Cloud feelings. However, it was cause to be suspicious. Or because of poor living conditions (parents, children of a cohabiting Zhi, or even a total lie), or because their parents had committed an indecent enough, the sons and daughters unwittingly witnessed during sex, are not uncommon. Apart from embarrassment, it is worth pondering the question is: Adult children have witnessed (or their parents or-law……) of sexual intercourse, the impact on their psychological »

2, the response of children of all ages

According to a study reported that children of different ages, inadvertently witnessed sexual intercourse with adults, different mentality, the response is very different.

3 to 4 year-old child, many parents still sleep with one, some with a sleep. Sleeping children, their parents before having sex. As the couple making love did Dongzuoguotai, excessive or because Deyiwangxing, making love when the sound of joy, awakened by a child. Fashion do not know their children wake up, Shuiyan Blur, even see or hear their parents having sex movement, but also Zhangerhushang, Mobuzhuotou. Children of parents middle of the night not sleeping, was baffled. Slumbered line, regardless of what has, over a body, and fell asleep. Parents found that children wake up, should immediately stop actions, the attention of misconduct and if the children Mimihuhu to a questioning, to calm, to explain a smart, prevarication on, and this can cover the past and can be easily diluted witnessed sexual intercourse with children Impression. However, if time and again three, if things continue this way, the children will Constant clouds, and even no intention to change seen as potential witness. At this point, the issue was complex.

5 to 6 years of age or slightly larger than that of the children, inadvertently witnessed sexual intercourse with adults, although its unknown reasons, which do not know the secret, but a bit of curiosity, fun. Curiosity, exploration would like Gejiu Jing; fun, wanted to imitate. They wait, looking for the chance to see again. They ask the partners in the same age, the messenger. They trust other adults in the face by a series of problems. The event of opportunities, playing 'sex' game. Especially boys, often ignoring the wishes of the other side, forced to play 'love' game, vulgar action to imitate sex.

10 to 12-year-old child, accidentally witnessed sexual intercourse with adults, is no longer Momingqimiao, just curious. They tend to move some sex, mutatis mutandis, film and television, some of the criminals raped action, and social customs of opinion, to make its own Yikongzhijian. They live legally in the sex couples, the rogue and illegal sexual violence confused. They believe that his father 'bullying' mother, brother-in-law 'torn' sister…….

3, opened gauze

Ignorance and ignorance, has always been a twin brother. Unwittingly witnessed sexual intercourse with children, adults do not think 'disgraceful', 'scandals',' is ever '. An attempt to censure, intimidation to be covered up, this is unnecessary and useless. To be frank, natural, generous to tell the children, the couple making love is a natural human instinct. Everyone must grow up Guoxingshenghuo. Open gauze, the mental health of children is not helpful.