Electra, the Oedipus complex

The boy's "Oedipus complex" and girls "Electra complex" is in the process of psychological development of a unique phenomenon of emotion. 3-year-old children in the 6-year-old, will be in a more emotional attachment one of the parents. Son more attachment mother, father, daughter more attachment, which is the majority of children 3 to 6-year-old entered the stage of a psychological phenomenon. At this time there can be only four possible: Electra, Oedipus, the whole love or not love.

Psychologists believe that: the boy's Oedipus must be timely psychological dilute, or even cut off. If the boy is allowed to develop unchecked will cause adverse effects, they may grow up remains deeply Lianzhe mother, and not easily moved to the feelings of other women who can not even form a smooth family; severe cases can lead to the development of psychological barriers Or other barriers, the impact of future life.

People always used to the Electra, the Oedipus complex as a family issue, if not attached to the children of parents, many people think that because their children not good enough, to redouble their compensation. It should be forgotten in due course, this feeling faded.

If you read the Japanese animal film "the story of the fox", in the film, the mother fox and the fox in order to feed their children do a full, the fox "Yishenxunzhi", but, on the mother fox hunting, hunters were under the clip Nongduan the legs and a final Shui Shui Po and food to send back David Fox, the scene moving. But to David Fox grown up, the mother fox began to strict training of their children. In a sunny morning, the mother fox will have grown up children rush from the side, forcing them to the world since the storm. The film is said to be Japan's photographers hiding in the forest four years to complete the masterpiece, it will naturally frank display in front of us, our lives should be a positive inspiration.

2002 Hong Kong artist Chen Baolian suicide has aroused great concern to the media. Newspapers have such a comment:

Love is Chen Baolian fatal. Parents divorced a young age, lack of a father of Chen Baolian Electra Complex, she was very eager to get his father's love and Tengxi, so she will be with her so many older Taiwanese businessman exchanges, after being abandoned to some abnormal behavior, Hope that we can to get care.

I believe such comments to those who wish to seize the children of their own unrestricted attachment tail of the parents, vigilance.

Many parents do not agree with his daughter to marry the elderly, or even think that this is a disgrace to the family. Some mothers always sighed his son does not want to get married, but the number of parents seriously thought about this result is often directly responsible for their parents.