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Sexual fantasies of adolescent psychology is the important content. The so-called sexual fantasies, that is, young people in the social and cultural environment in the acceptance of sex clips, through the reorganization of the brain, the fictional life of their own sex to meet their sexual and psychological needs. This fantasy and more before falling asleep and wake up in bed after that period of time there, some people will appear in excitement, such as ejaculation boys, girls genitals hyperemia.

16-year-old Xiao-dong, is a focus of high school students. Because of the mature, and often have a strong sense of his sexual impulses. The only relief that he is to, whenever Yeshenrenjing, he would start a "pipe dream", fantasy and the fullness of her most beautiful girls sections deeply Xiangyong, and even many of the moves appeared close . Throughout the course of fantasy, he shot lead. Each done after such a dream, Xiaodong had a very pleasant and comfortable feeling.

Xiaodong such sexual fantasies, is a physical and mental health of young people in sexual development period due to the normal activities of mental performance, they note the awakening of consciousness and awareness of the germination, this is a normal mental activities. Research data show that young people in adolescent sexual fantasies is the proportion of the growth and increase with age, but less than the same age group the proportion of heterosexual desire. The incidence of sexual fantasies of men and women there was no significant difference in the rate of about one-third. Foreign literature, 28 percent of men and 25 percent of women in puberty before a sexual fantasies, "daydreaming" this spirit masturbation sexual activity, is Duoqing men and Huaichun girls emotional venting and the Paiqian Eros One way. Rousseau in his "Confessions" in talking about "daydreaming", pointed out that it has many functions, primarily for their sex incorporation with rich imagination of the romantic lens, and so beloved by the people Surreal fantasy atmosphere of love in the abstract.

However, a small number of young people will have to worry about, afraid of. Many of them fear their own sexual fantasies, will be considered a violation of ethics, or even illegal, dangerous acts, and even had a sense of guilt and anxiety. In fact, according to youth psychology and education experts point of view, as long as young people not to use acts of sexual fantasies in the real things and the environment, and a threat to the safety of themselves and others, then even more special sexual fantasies , Is not psychologically ill, or on the personality deviation, or the moral What is the problem.

Thus, appropriate sexual fantasies on the psychological adjustment has a positive meaning. It allows young people can not very practical to sexual contact on an alternative access to the meet. In the space of imagination, they can imagine themselves and each other will say what will be what to do, and allow themselves from the needs of real-life escape out of the depressed inner venting, to meet the needs and imaginations of heart. Therefore, sexual fantasies like a safety valve, which effectively resolve the problems of young people feel depressed and puzzled.

However, a small number of young people, because too many accepted the adverse information, or due to personality defects or a lack of proper guidance and education, and Chenmian in sexual fantasies, Xiangrufeifei day, it will give physical and mental Health hazards. For instance, some young people on issues of concern too, can not concentrate on their studies, some suffering from a "single-Love" or "favor paranoia", confusion fantasy and reality, the development of mental illness to the brink of others lost their life struggling The driving force, the day dispirited, insomnia, there are the cause excessive masturbation, to exercise restraint, since the crime of self-blame, inferiority complex since the low, resulting in serious psychological disorders; because young people have sexual fantasies of distress, and suffering from Depression, anxiety disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, neurosis.

Mr. Sohn of a secondary high school students, watched a lot of pornographic novels and yellow video, thus the whole day thinking about this matter. Met a beautiful Miss, he Xiangrufeifei when riots can not be controlled, but frequent masturbation, or even through some simulated organs of the opposite sex objects for "sexual intercourse" He looked trance all day long, Kongzhibuliao their own, learning is plummeted. He infatuated with a number of obscene that with the text, pictures, photographs, etc., produced by masturbation and sexual psychological Kangfen Liaoren the Xiasi. Gradually, as he would like to try to look like fantasy of the desire to become stronger and stronger, because ultimately Qutou Kongzhibuzhu their own expense and the Nvce Suo……

Mr. Sohn examples show that adolescent sexual "daydreaming" if not guidance and control, it could go to the extreme, sexual metamorphosis. Metamorphosis of the patient is often in a rational manner to concentrate on the sex fantasies, and may be subject to action. For those character withdrawn within shy, sensitive Duoqing of adolescents, should be particularly vigilant.