Tuesday, 2 September 2008

Marital sex life in the mental health

Marital sex life in the mental healthIt is one of a kind of flooding, and a instinct, but today's love and marriage is not only to meet with the flooding of instinct and. As human society and cultural development, the sexual drive of sexual instincts and also continue to become noble elegance, in the sexual life of the two sides should be more attention to the feelings and dignity. Kind of blatant sexual maniac, to abuse the other as Kuaishi of sexual performance by the metamorphosis of hunger, said the point is the social culture of the main negative.

Unusual way to indulge their own desires, it will not only lead to negative psychological changes, so that the two sides will feel shame. Therefore, the husband and wife must live in the promotion of psychological health, ignored this point, the family structure will become very fragile. Husband and wife living in the mental health of the mainly reflected in two aspects:

First, both spouses, especially married couples, for various reasons, may have life and have different requirements for understanding, it is very normal. Each other should be mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual support and gradually adapt to, the two sides should not disregard the feelings and psychological pressure, act with undue haste, to impose.

Second, we must pay attention to maintaining a good mood, emotional state, in the life of husband and wife must also safeguard the integrity of their personality. This is the main maintain the psychological health and a good personality is very important. It should be that of the life of many elements and reflects the cultural education, ideological quality, psychological quality. In the couple of life, and strengthen the mainstay of any Biantaixinli formation and development of the behavior, although probably not detract from a third party and society, but it reflects the main unhealthy psychological demands and habits. This adverse psychological sentiment should be constantly cultivate and improve cultivation, culture noble faith to correct.

Many reasons for this may hinder the healthy development of psychology. For example, since the Intercalation psychological, excessive narcissism, the personality characteristics of hot, long-term suppression of the psychological wish to be venting, the potential abuse victims and desire and bad friends, yellow cultural influences, and so on, some of these factors may be as Awareness of the potential, under the influence of adverse incentives and the role others may be as an incentive, the activation of the potential adverse psychological factors, and in different forms, as the people's conduct.

Do not pay attention to psychological health will lead to many negative consequences: You can destroy the couple's feelings, so that one side had to evade the sex life, psychological conflict, no longer wanted to go to gradually adapt to each other, may have a female side Xingleng Dan, one male performance for the Premature ejaculation, Yang fistula; likely to change the whole character traits, have Biantaixinli, and even more have more serious consequences.

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