"Sexual fantasies" is the devil or an angel

He and his wife Chen has been nearly 50 years of the couple, married for more than 20 years, Chen has become a handsome body fat middle-aged men, and the beautiful slender Chen-fu, his wife began, wrinkles and climbed up the Meishao, years In their possession left its mark. However, each sex life wife Chen Chen always imagine that as the My Fair Lady, very excited to Mr. Chen, his wife Chen has been infected by her husband's behavior, the results of the two sides are relatively satisfied with life, Chen also surprised his wife Why do young people themselves also maintained a state of mind.

Many married couples sex life is tedious, very few middle-aged couples can be like Mr. Chen and his wife, even living together for 20 years, and the quality of life has not decreased. One of the reasons for this is that sexual fantasies played a role.

To make boring sex life to color, sexual fantasies is the most simple, one of the most effective manner. Usually, both men and women can have sexual fantasies, sexual fantasies in the scenes of objects and people in general can reflect the true inner needs and fantasies are often inconsistent with reality. Its beauty lies not subject to time and space constraints, the increase in sexual excitement and help cultivate interest in sex, and promote the arrival of high tide. According to the research, active and enjoyable sex life of women, often have the illusion of rich experience.

Of medical experts that the sexual fantasies of married women, especially for those who have difficulties to achieve orgasm for women with sexual stimulation role. If not satisfied with the sexual partner, you not only do not have to suppress their sexual fantasies, but can imagine some more fresh, more unusual circumstances, and the pursuit of physical pleasure for you the process bring more inspiration. For example:

A, a fantasy lover. Women have an ideal Valentine's hearts, or one of a long-standing admirers of the star, her first love, or even any of their favorite, but beyond the reach of the people. He understood the desire of women, physical rhythm and dreams of women are physically and mentally so that the warmth and Shu Fang.

B, certain occupations are particularly vulnerable people Xiangrufeifei, pilots, doctors, soldiers can make a woman…… Chunxindangyang.

C, create a romantic plot. Shuai is also a gentle man drove the car to meet you, have also Pengzhe a bouquet of flowers, invite you to enjoy candlelight dinner, a champagne point, he praises the beauty of you, take you deep kiss.

Women can imagine a handsome man, middle-aged men, can imagine the beautiful young woman, these "matches" is out of the fictional, is not specifically a specific person, fantasy objects are mostly a transient, sex life After the end of the fantasy objects also will disappear, so does not undermine the role of husband-wife relationship. If the object of sexual fantasies have always kept in mind throughout the day, or even their own fantasy colleagues or friends, I am afraid it will affect the normal feelings of the husband and wife, and improve the quality of life runs counter to the purpose.

Well, sexual fantasies have this form of pathological » Some. 3 Zhongshan Hospital of the psychological barrier of division Xiao-Hong Zhou, sexual fantasies may be too imaginative in some developed and akrasia poor people who occupy an important position, people may be too deep into that interfere with normal learning and work to " Forced sexual fantasy of "stage. Especially young people, thinking active, akrasia poor, strong in the sexual stimulation may deviate from the correct direction. For example, in universities, the most popular is probably the A-and A look at one of such films: freshman sophomore desperately want to see; junior Tiaozhao see; senior is too lazy to look at to see more on the greasy. They believe we look at the film, when the model and when the teachers to their classes on sex education. After watching some people will do on sexual dreams, masturbation or secretly, but also part of solution to find a girlfriend.

There was an indulgence in the A-students, and self-feeling body has problems, very distressed. He will head a whole day there in the A-frame, lingering to see girls have sexual impulses, and did not dare try at night to masturbate frequently, resulting in learning and life chaos. This has obvious on the forced, to seek the help of a psychiatrist. There is also a more serious situation, if often daydream, in the absence of any special circumstances of the state, male and female genitalia to fantasy, with drooling, Deng Yanjing, which are of a psychological disorder, doctors need to seek psychiatric help .

Close to remind: the illusion of space is extremely private, have no illusions about the potential. Experts believe that everyone has sexual fantasies, some fantasy movie stars, some of the illusions have seen photos of naked, it was the first love fantasy lovers, most people would imagine that they have brought a strong stimulation of things. As long as it is not because arising from abnormal sexual fantasies or acts of violence, the illusion that these should be normal. But once the fantasy of open, on a bomb. No one would be willing to their loved ones close at heart and mind of others, even rational, understandable, but difficult to accept emotionally. So for the couple's sex life to a harmonious happy, Do not tell each other their sexual fantasies, remember that this is a restricted area.