Three kinds of character easily lose their sexual pleasure

Of a person's life is full psychological quality of the concentrated expression. Many aspects of the personality defects will affect the sex life of the coordination and happy. For such people, the most important thing is not complaining about each other or blindly learning of skills, but first of all to strive to improve their personality.

In fact, everything is listen to evade

26-year-old Xiao Qing, one will see the opposite sex blush, the new husband after marriage before even in the atmosphere could not breath, but less than a year, two on divorce. It turned out that her husband could not bear to each sex after her crying.

Xiaoqing from childhood grew up in rural areas, the parents of son preference thinking of the impact that he is a lowly, should always obey her husband, can not have their own ideas. Sex life of her only in terms of pay, fear. Unfortunately, her husband are not aware of the mentality of "tricks" More and more, which made her feel extremely fear and crying. She felt they were "bullied", may also have nowhere to tell.

Lin Chi in the advisory experience, or light or heavy avoid this type of character many women. This young parents and let them build and is "not clean" on the concept, very easily lead to adult sexual performance to escape, the mentality of fear.

More frightening is that once there is a conflict because of sex, the Association of such character that its own: a problem in themselves necessarily, a woman born as men. Otherwise they will blame themselves not recognize each other, finding the wrong target, which quickly withdraw from the so-called "destructive" Love relations.

Lin Chi believes that in order to save this relationship, the woman must be a systematic desensitization, to gradually help change their sexual attitudes, from his wife to help her husband Kuanyi, gradually reduce their anxiety when faced with the opposite sex flu. When the body of the opposite sex completely Shiran, the couple will be able to resume normal relations.

Jin Chi is behind narcissism

Fengxuan in the memory of the East, such a call to his unforgettable.

That was a shy man, he does not understand why their total can not satisfy the newly-wed wife. Tokyo wants to see Men's hesitation, because he masturbation, it was never any problem. The wife complained that he felt "like a man", and even psychological counseling are Zhigan by telephone.

Only heard about the months, on the East Fengxuan aware that this is a narcissistic personality conflicts case the husband and wife.

Narcissistic personality who often have almost all the excellent conditions: Zhongxingpengyue the growth process at an early age Shouchong the family environment, highly educated, excellent partner. They concern themselves much appreciate the feelings of others less, in the sexual life in the same way. They will even put the idea on their own unrealistic demands, forced to accept each other. Once refused, or can not be completed, it will make life a "more demand, the more dissatisfied with the" vicious circle.

"Narcissism of the conflict is difficult to resolve. Unless he do psychological counseling, and truly learn considerate because it is a personality defect, the ability to appreciate loved very low, how can he love to meet."

The total suspected to have extramarital affairs of bigotry

"If he is not, then he walked home in a certain going anxiously awaiting his wife." Fengxuan East with the words describe the 30-year-old Mr. Luo.

Mr. Luo with his wife, are unwilling to admit defeat in the "strongman type." However, his wife seems to be more achievements in their work more often "fly" to "fly" to travel to meetings. Each time came back, she looked very tired, Mr. Luo, "another small-wedding" is the enthusiasm of some resistance.

Mr. Luo began his wife also appreciate the hard work, but the frequency of more than one, "his wife have extramarital affairs," the idea of starting an inhibition to appear in his mind. Even if evidence can not grasp, he also wishful thinking to themselves as victims, in the performance of the life of the victim's attitude to constantly test the wife in various languages.

Before you know it, before the sex drama has become an insult and irony, the last wife is unbearable, the proposed separation.

"Paranoid personality, extremely sensitive, but stubbornly ideological and rigid. If a family, often the spouse suspected disloyalty. Therefore, in most aspects of life easier hurt partner, and even sexual abuse tendencies." In this case, to the Eastern Fengxuan Prescription is: people must learn tolerance and trust. Since the marriage, it is necessary to the full confidence of his wife.